贾母为什么独独偏疼宝玉？

别认为老夫人就要风得风，要雨得雨，表里相济，一切尽在掌持中了。其实贾母才或者不上的方位也许多——比如对孙辈的赡养权问题。

贾母多次提到她照旧退休了，如今荣国府本色住持的是王夫东谈主，而在王夫东谈主率领下本色操作的，则是王熙凤。从王夫东谈主到王熙凤的权利滚动，这亦然有一个经由的。反推且归，贾母是在许多年已往就照旧放权了。

中国有句话叫抱子弄孙。古代老年东谈主退休之后，时常可爱把赡养孙子当成乐趣。但是荣国府的长孙贾珠，是由王夫东谈主切身赡养的。对袭东谈主的那一句“我何曾不知谈管男儿，先你珠大爷在，我是如何管他？”便是左证。

贾母退休了，思赡养孙子。但是大男儿的宗子夭折，二男儿的宗子又由二儿媳切身赡养，轮不到老夫人上手。元、迎、探、惜倒是由贾母赡养长大的，不外毕竟是女孩子，在古代社会里，跟男孙没宗旨比拟。再自后的贾环，也被赵姨娘切身带在身边。再下一辈儿的贾兰，李纨也带的很紧，甚而有少量儿稀奇和贾母、王夫东谈主拉开距离的意味。

既然不可像《大宅门》里二奶奶同样强夺孩子，那只可收容别东谈主挑剩下的、不珍贵的、穷乏存眷的。别东谈主挑剩的，能让贾母赡养的，男孙，独一宝玉了。

贾母很懂重多礼地退出。要是从一启动就不把宝玉给她带，她也不会跟男儿媳妇闹见地；但是把宝玉给她带了，她一定很珍重。

在权利的掌控上贾母角落化了，在父母的兴趣上宝玉被角落化了。贾母和宝玉之间不仅是祖孙之爱，还有一定的患难与共之情。就怕这才是贾母对宝玉厚谊颠倒深厚的原因。

虽然宝玉“生的得东谈主意”，也会讨贾母的可爱，大面上“见东谈主礼数竟比大东谈主行出来的可以”，这些王人是他的加分项。但是宝玉生下来被亲生父母忽略，就怕才是最根底的要素。

要到贾珠逝世之后，贾政王夫东谈主再莫得别的依靠（贾环“东谈主物委琐，行径发放”，真的窘态大任。贾政对贾兰倒是可以，可惜年事太小，况兼隔了代，毕竟是孙子了），才从头把驻扎力放到宝玉身上来。

在贾珠还莫得死的时辰，他才是荣国府的“吾家沉驹”、芝兰玉树。而我方遴荐了多礼退出的贾母，只好在被粗拙的宝玉身上，倾注最多厚谊了。

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